After that talk, he was the most popular guy at the bar (I extended our night to closing time).Everyone was loving his company and, most importantly, he was telling me how much he was enjoying himself. take things further with the cute little southern belle that had him pressed against the fence (we love our patios in Austin), or join us for food across the street. You’ve probably heard it before in some form or another.
Whether or not that person wants to talk to/date us has for more to do with things outside of our control (are they single? If you don’t celebrate every small step forward and allow yourself to feel good about every little success you’ll never move forward.
But when we’re uncomfortable, other messages swarm our brain and do their best to discredit those perfectly good ideas.
Now, every person is going through things a little differently at different times, and so what I said to my client that night was personally tailored to his situation — to the messages that swarmed his brain..
The sharing of “conversational turn-taking” and the ability to tune in to the other person are early indicators of relationship prospects and limitations.
The sound of a person’s voice, especially its animation and musicality or lack thereof, is important.